Let’s face it. To women, Valentine’s Day is a big deal. So whether you like it or not, if there is a special woman in your life, it needs to be a big deal to you, too! Below are a few tips to help you be a hero on this very special day.
Yes, it’s cliché. But women love flowers. So go ahead and try an old faithful, but make sure you put your heart into it. Running by the grocery store on your way home from work on Valentine’s Day will not suffice. Pick up the phone or hop online and order a fantastic, beautiful bouquet of roses in a fabulous color that match your significant other’s personality. On a tight budget? Purchase a number of flowers that are significant to you as a couple. For example, if you have been married three years, buy her three roses. Or choose one of a variety of flower that reminds you of a specific characteristic of her that you find enchanting. If you put some thought into choosing the flowers she will notice. Trust me.
Make a Plan
Women love to know that you took the time to think about what they like and plan something special for them. If your special someone loves the symphony, take her to the best show in town. If she prefers to be at home, be daring and cook her a fabulous meal or order take out from her favorite restaurant, and serve it by candle light. Other great ideas include a couples massage, taking her to try something she has always wanted to try (like ice skating), dining at the restaurant where you had your first date, or sweep her away on a weekend escape to the mountains. Whatever you choose, just remember that making her feel special by planning every detail just for her is essential.
Focus on Her
This one may be the hardest, but while celebrating Valentine’s Day maker her your focus, not your phone. Don’t just turn it on vibrate! Turn it off so that no emails, phone calls, or text messages can distract you from focusing on her.
No matter what your budget or how extreme you choose to go, following these simple steps will be sure to please. Remember that it is all for her, the one you love. Enjoy your Valentine’s Day!